Friday, October 31, 2008

Halloween

We took Zachary trick-or-treating downtown Wheaton this afternoon as the stores opened their doors to pass out candy to the kids. Zachary dressed up as a "Choo Choo Man" thanks to the hand-me-down outfit from our neighbor who wore this costume last year. Zachary loves the outfit, but he does prefer to wear the hat backwards. After our fill of candy we took Zachary to Adams Park for a few pictures, where Zachary was sorely disappointed to find out that not all "parks" have playgrounds. He did enjoy throwing his new ball that one store handed out.
Then we were off for a quick stop to see cousin Lizzie, the bunny.
Next we hurried home to join up with the other kids in the neighborhood for a photo shoot. Well, we snapped a few pictures anyway. The boys were having way too much fun in their costumes!
I love this one of Dean and Will (last year's engineer) peeking out from behind the tree!
Zoe the zebra

The highlight of the evening was our last stop. We didn't get Zachary out to trick-or-treat around our neighborhood until after it was dark. Our neighbors around the corner had glow sticks! They gave one to Zachary and after lots of fun with the other kids we brought it home, turned off the lights and had a blast watching the glow stick running around the house!!

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Pumpkin Party

This is how the afternoon started. As usual Zachary staring at all the people taking it in.

That all changed when he spotted the balls! My little guy was out in the field with the BIG guys kicking the football and playing with the best of them. He was having a blast.

I spent the entire time carving our "family" pumpkin. It was a city skyline, but after the first day I brought it home a squirrel ripped out one of the buildings and ate it. Dane preferred to spend his afternoon playing basketball with the guys. It's always fun for me when others get a glimpse of what a great player he is.
(Ours is the one on the left. Sadly you cannot see the detail I carved with such care.)

Lunch Laughter

(I edited out the high pitch squeals between giggles)

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Mackenzie Penny Anne

Mackenzie was born today to my beloved friend, Tricia.

I thank God for this precious life!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Monday, October 20, 2008

The Surprise of a Lifetime!!!

Dane had been telling me for a few months that he was planning a surprise for me, but not to get my hopes up because it wasn't a big deal and that it was not going to be ready for a while. So I put it out of my mind (well, almost).

Thursday, Oct 16

At 6:30am Dane woke me up with these words, "Good morning sweetheart. Today is the day of your surprise."

A smile came over my face and (clearly not fully alert enough to realize what was coming) I thought "Well, this is going to have to be quick because I have Bible Study in a few hours."

Then he told me to put on some comfortable shoes and be ready to go in 10 minutes! I quickly jumped in the shower and then realized that my blow dryer, brush, makeup, clothes...everything was missing. [I realise that to some people this kind of surprise would be most unwelcome - no control, no hints, total trust - but, I love surprises so I never asked for details to be made known in advance.]

Surprise # 1: At about 7am, the doorbell rang and I opened the door to find Dane's mother, JANI (who I had just dropped off at the airport only days before following the True Woman conference!) holding a balloon as a wise Mayme does to ease the transition for my 2 year old son as he watched his parents leave in the car.

Surprise # 2: At this point I'm thinking that we must be driving to WI for a night in a cabin or something. The Dane snapped me out of that delusion when he asked me what was the best way to O'Hare AIRPORT!

Surprise # 3: We parked in economy parking and as we were waiting to catch the train to the airport Dane casually mentioned that we would be getting off at terminal 5. When we got on the train I looked up at the system map and saw that terminal 5 was the INTERNATIONAL terminal! (Please keep in mind that this is a complete surprise and I still don't know how long we'll be gone.)

Surprise # 4: Now I'm getting a little nervous as we pass the Korean airlines. I'm just following Dane (screaming on the inside with excitement) as he leads us up to the airline Mexicana. "We're going to MEXICO?!!!" I scream.

Surprise # 5: Dane tries to contain my awe as we have now attracted quite a crowd of onlookers as they realize what Dane is doing for me. He slips the lady our itinerary and she confirms, "You're going to Cancun?" "We're going to CANCUN?!!!" I scream again.

And 3 hours and 15 minutes later...we were in Cancun.

Surprise # 6: When we got to the Grand Solaris (our hotel) Dane asked the young guy checking us in if breakfast was included or if the hotel provided any meals. The guy looked at us like we were from Mars. He simply responded, "Sir, this is an ALL INCLUSIVE hotel." What??!! We have no categories for this kind of luxury. All we want to eat and drink 24 hours a day?? Finally I surprise for Dane too (apparently he did not realize this when he booked our hotel in a package deal from Travelocity).

Surprise # 7: As if it could not get any better...Dane got the BEST ROOM in the hotel!

We were greeted with towel swans and real rose petals all over our bed. There was a private jacuzzi on our balcony, the mini fridge was restocked daily, room service was complimentary and here is our ocean view!

Our first night we went to a private event featuring a PreHispanic dinner (including file mignon) and re-enactments of the tribal dances and rituals of the culture. It was at this dinner that we met our first friends of the trip, Dave and Jane. They were from British Columbia and we greatly enjoyed getting to interact with them throughout our stay.

Friday, Oct 17

Cancun is like a rectangle surrounding a lagoon with the bottom leg being a huge strip of hotels (much like Daytona). At the bottom right corner is the downtown Cancun for tourists. Today we ventured out of hotel to check it out. We hopped on the bus for 6.50 pesos each and ended up at the Flea Market. I LOVED the market, but Dane really disliked it. Bargaining and haggling is right up my ally (remember my love for garage sales?) and so I felt no pressure from the 150+ booth owners yelling to us with the same signature call, "Okay, my turn guys!"

Saturday, Oct 18
Since Dane had a food budget we no longer needed, we were able to go on an excursion. We both knew just what we wanted to do: SNORKELING! Through Aqua World we went on their Jungle Tour, which meant that we would drive a wave runner through the lagoon out into the ocean and snorkel for 45 minutes at the coral reef.
Sunday, Oct 19

Today we took full advantage of the hotel pools, activities, and the ocean. Dane took turns braving the waves (which were huge as we were in the beginning of hurricane season) and lounging in the sun by the pool. I had fun being carefree (read child free) and joined a water volleyball game. My team was awesome and I even had the game winning hit!

The losers had to roll in the sand like "Kentucky Fried Chicken"
(as our ref in the orange shorts called it).

Our last 2 nights we ate at the "fancy" restaurant, Marco Polo. Tonight Dane ate frog legs, sushi, and duck. I had file mignon.

Monday, Oct 20

5 days and 4 nights later...how could we go home now?? What an incredible surprise that I'm sure will never be topped and no, Dane doesn't even have to try. And what a tremendous blessing to be gone for this long and not even have to think about Zachary as I knew he was having far more fun with Mayme than if I were there! THANK YOU MAYME!!!

We said goodbye to Mexico refreshed and recharged to finish 2008 well. It was priceless to be able to get away with my sweet husband and experience the love of our youth again. Thank you. Thank you, my darling Dane. You are precious to me beyond description. I love you.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

True Woman 08

TrueWoman08: Now is the time

This weekend I had the privilege of attending this conference that turned out to be the beginning of a counter-cultural movement! We explored what the Bible says is a beautiful woman vs. what our culture is telling us. The kinds of questions I ask today and lies I have swallowed as truth were not even an issue for women just 40 years ago. Mary Kassian said it well when she quoted an advertisement proclaiming, "We've come a long way baby!" At the conference I signed a document called the True Woman Manifesto declaring that I want to live against the flow of culture and stand for what the Bible teaches is beautiful.

I attended the conference with my mother-in-law, Jani. We were in the second row on the first night to hear John Piper speak on true womanhood opening with the line, "wimpy theology makes wimpy women!" It was awesome to be there. God moved among us as over 6,000 women showed up to see what He would do!

Here is a link to the conference schedule where you can hear for yourself what we were so blessed to be a part of.

In the wake of this conference I have been left with new questions of what it means to live as a True Woman. I have been helped by the resource Nancy Lee DeMoss sends out via email called the True Woman Make-over. In addition to this I am taking a class at Wheaton College. As a student's wife I found out that I can audit classes for free and so I'm taking advantage of this! I chose Carla Waterman's class called Women in the Kingdom. Tonight (10/30) will be our second class and I can already tell that I'm going to be greatly helped through Carla's wise teaching.

May the Lord not let me rest in a season of contentment, but continue to flame my thirst for Him until I am completely satisfied in his presence!

Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness (Christ), for they shall be satisfied. - Matthew 5:6

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Finally

I've been babysitting to save up enough money to buy Zachary a train set and table. I got the train table (practically new) for $30 off Craigslist. I had been watching for just the right one for months. And the trains arrived last night! It was so much fun to watch Zachary enjoy this surprise when he woke up this morning.
My little conductor